Before we correct our children, let’s take a moment to connect with them first.
In the chaos of a tricky moment, it’s tempting to jump straight to correction mode. But when we hit pause and try to understand what’s bubbling beneath the surface, we create space for something even better: genuine connection.
Connection doesn’t mean brushing off misbehavior — it means seeing the big emotions driving those little outbursts. A child acting out is often just a child feeling overwhelmed or disconnected. By offering a hug, a kind word, or even a silly smile, we remind them that our love is bigger than any mistake.
When we connect first, correction feels more like teamwork and less like a lecture. Instead of, “Why did you do that?” we can try, “What’s going on, buddy?” This small shift can turn a meltdown into a meaningful moment of growth (and maybe even a giggle or two).
Our kids don’t need us to have all the answers — they just need us to show up, listen, and remind them they’re loved, even when things get messy. And from that safe, snuggly place of connection, they’ll start to understand not just what to do, but why it matters.
Let’s be their calm in the storm, their steady anchor, and the reason they know love always comes before correction.
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